She flipped the punch bowl over and threatened to set me on fire when I told her to calm down.

[Lydia rolled her eyes, remembering how close she'd been to just giving Mal the enemy she wanted to see everywhere. how her Spark had saved her from it and started a friendship instead]

So I asked her why she was so upset, instead of yelling back, and when she told me, I listened.

[it wasn't any sort of mini-lecture or anything, just simple fact of what she'd done]